Wednesday, June 10, 2009

Happy Memories...

Although today makes the Anniversary of a very sad day in my life, I wanted to take the time today to remember all the good times we shared and all the fun memories I will always have.
So here in short are a few of my Top 5 Favorite things related to Adam and our friendship
Top 5 Favorite Memories:
- Going for Wings at Kelly's
- Our Annual Christmas Dinner at Perkins
- Our Frequent Road trips to TYAD for Adam to play basketball with all the other Army Guys
- Frequent Lunches together while he was at TYAD for training
- Our HORRIBLE dinner at Bennigan's
Top 5 Songs that remind me of his Horrible Singing:
- Magic Stick - 50 Cent and Lil Kim
- Hey Ya - Outkast
- Wish You Were Here - Pink Flyod
- P.I.M.P - 50 Cent
- Sexy Sadie - The Beatles
Top 5 Favorite "Adamisms":
- Oh my
- I'm a grow-er not a show-er
- Right on
- Hey Darlin'
- last but certainly not least Sugar Britches

Adam - I love you dearly and will never forget all of our long talks and all the fun we had. You were the best friend a girl could ask for and you may be gone but you will never be forgotten. Ok, enough of the sappy crap, I'm off to see NKOTB in concert just for you and I'm sure you're glad you're not here for me to drag you with me. Even though I know you're a closet NKOTB fan ;-) Love always, Sugar Britches.

Tuesday, June 9, 2009

Always Make Time to Remember...

About 6 years ago, I met a man named Adam. He was unlike any person I had ever met and came into my life at probably my most vulnerable point. He showed me so many things, he showed me how to live life and enjoy everything and everyone in it. We talked just about everyday and about everything. He was so charismatic and funny he quickly turned into one of the greatest friends I could ever ask for.

He was one of those people who comes into your life at just the right time to change everything and leave their foot prints behind whether you wanted it there or not. He cared more about others than himself, he was passionate, funny as hell and a great shoulder to lean on.

Tomorrow marks the 2 year anniversary of his death, the death of my best friend. He was a kind loving man whom I miss as much now as I did the day he died. He meant the world to a lot of people I just wish we could have shown him in life, rather than death, what he truly meant.

Tomorrow on his anniversary I will not be sitting at home crying or sulking I will be out with friends at a concert living my life and having a great time. Crying and sulking is not what he would want me to be doing, he'd want me to be laughing and loving life and that's what I plan on doing. The last thing Adam would want would be for me to sad, even if for a moment. (Although I'll admit I've cried through half this blog already). I'm determined to make tomorrow a happy day instead of a sad one. I'll never forget Adam or the friendship we shared, he will be a part of my life forever, and I will love him always.




Adam Lohman Kurczi
03/06/76 - 06/10/07